- Insurance (Aetna) & home birth
- I live in Washington state, I want a home birth but my insurance (Aetna) is anti-home birth....is anti-home birth. Has anyone gone before and had to do this fight? It also says some...where the baby was born?Please an information/help on this would be VERY much appreciated!!!!...
- "Natural" Family Planing?
- I've been hearing a lot about NFP in correlation with using/relying on many not-so-natural tools. I don't know that much about NFP, but the name makes me think of a more natural method than what I've seen (though I haven't seen much.) Is it that without these newer tools it
- holy crap its almost time.
- i just saw my ticker on ezboard and it says i have 3 weeks and 3 days until my due date. i almost passed out.omg.i haven't packed yet. i'm working on it today, but there's so much to do!i'm not ready!!!!!! :nut
- Baby No#2 on the way!
- I would just like to announce that I am pregnant again!I got my first BFP at just 6DPO!! Thinking this must be wrong i have been POAS like they are going out of fashion. But that faint line keeps coming up.EDD 25.10.07 which will be an 18month gap between DS and baby 2.DS was 7weeks premmie so h
- Prodromal Labor starting...
- I started having some very low pulling contractions real early Tues morning. Then I was all sore and achey yesterday, on top of spilling cloudy, swirly fluid that wasn't urine into the toilet around 11:30a. :p This being the fourth time I've labored like this, I knew it's just t
- Dentist..cleaning, teeth whitening...safe or not?
- I am going crazy since I found this site. I love how supportive everyone is, so I feel comfortable posting all the questions I had but never really thought of asking.So my questions are: Is it safe to have cleaning done while I am pregnant?Is it safe to have teeth whitening done while I am preg
- Maybe not...No baby yet!
- So I have been having regular contractions now for about 5 hours - they are 10 minutes apart but not getting any more intense. I dropped dd off at day care just in case and went grocery shopping to see if things would pick up - so far nada. I would love to take a long walk outside but it's
- I started spotting last night. This may be TMI, b...
- I started spotting last night. This may be TMI, but I will give details since I am looking for some input. I went to the bathroom and found a brown blood stain in my underwear (dime size maybe). I wiped and saw just a hint of pink/brown. I put a pad on and wore it all night - nothing. All d
- Zari Roses birth story (unassisted)
- Here is the birth story of our (previously unnamed) Halloween baby:Over the past few weeks I had been having some feelings of doubt about my birth plans. There was nothing specific I was worried about, just vague anxieties. We ate dinner on Sunday night with a family we know from church. The mom
- Show off our birth plans?
- Hi mamas!I know some of us have done it before, but for those who only just recently wrote yours, who wants to show off their birth plans? :)
- left hand & shoulder pain but no bleeding or abdominal cramps
- Baby didnot cooperate in u/s
- I am 20 weeks pregnant with my first baby.Today i went for an u/s .Everything looked fine but the baby was moving a lot and so the technician was finding it difficult to measure a few things.Moreover the baby's legs were tightly closed & so we were unable to know whether it is a boy or girl
- my newborn has chicken pox!
- i exposed my three older kids to chicken pox and although they are starting to get spots today, opal has the most and started showing the spots two days ago.. she seems unaffected and is acting totally normal though so maybe we will get all thier immunity at once! so much for nursing kids not g
- IVF - long/short cycle Lupron
- I have a question to all you IVFers out there... I did my first IVF cycle with the long cycle Lupron. This means I started Lupron on day 22 after the first day of my previous period. This time around (my second IVF) they have decided to do the short cycle Lupron. This means I start Lupron toni
- Singing, Shouting, Celebrating! (Long)
- The story of a great home birth for a first-time mama.On Sunday, I worked all day, including a full afternoon of stressful, emotionally draining and difficult meetings. I wrote in my journal, "I spoke more bluntly than I am usually able to do, & I don't know whether it will have an
- Umm, I am really sorry to bother everyone, but I&#...
- Umm, I am really sorry to bother everyone, but I've posted two different times this morning and they are not showing up. It counts them as replies but I can't see them. Am I doing something wrong, it is under the topic "pregnancy and maintaining pregnancy" I am also not seeing the ot
- herbs & preggo
- my therapist has requested i start taking Bach Flowers a herbal supp... My question is since i am TTC is this going to harm the baby in any way? The therpist said it is completly natural and nothing will happen but I would like some opionos.Thanks!
- Basal temps & cosleeping
- According to TCOYF (which I just read this weekend), you have to have been asleep for 3 consecutive hours before taking your waking temperature.I haven't been asleep for 3 consecutive hours since having DD 19 months ago.Thoughts? Workarounds? Should I just give it a try anyway?
- Abnormal Fetal Heartbeat at 23 weeks
- Today I had an appointment with my midwife.The midwife listened to the baby's hearbeat and commented that it was abnormal. She told me that this problem often resolves itself etc etc and not to worry...um ok...abnormal heartbeat+ paranoid mother= loads of worryI am supposed to come back in
- Anyone stimming on IVF now?
- HI! :wave: My husband and I are doing our first IVF after nearly 7 years of TTC, chlomid, injections, 2 laproscopic surgeries for endo, lots and lots more injections and 4 failed IUIs, blah blah. :dizzy: Anway! I'm so very excited and I gotomorrow morning for my first IVF follie check
- Thermometer Issues
- Before we conceived DD we had a very reliable mercury therm given to us at our NFP class when we were engaged. Unfortunately, it broke and we had a big mess. Needless to say now we have to use a digital and I don't feel like I get as good of results with it. I have had times where I'
- News on me & my bf
- Well things are moving right along. This weekend we told my parents and my boyfriend's mother. Everyone is so excited! We decided we are going to get married close to Christmas. My boyfriend is blabbing to EVERYONE (he blabbed to the guy who works on his bike at BMW Manhattan). Anyway,
- posting photos?
- hey, can anyone give me some direction on how to post photos? the (epic!) birth story is coming and i want to attach photos but can't figure it out... uh, mommy brain! :lol can i just use our digital photo program or shuttefly or something? help!
- Brown Discharge: What are the chances of her being pregnant?
- Me and my girlfriend had intercourse august 15, 2007,No protection, she took the plan-B bill 2 days after, I did not ejaculate in her.We then had unprotected sex september 13, 2007. She took the plan-b pill immediately after. I did not ejaculate in her.Last month, my girlfriend did not have her
- Veeeeery concerned about my girlfriend...
- Me and my girlfriend (I'm 20, she's 19) started sexual relations a few weeks ago. We used protection..yada yada yada, everything is fine. Last Saturday she was on the brink of her period and we decided to go at it. This mostly because the opportunities to do so are few and far betwe
- 6 weeks 5 days saw fetal pole
- :angel: hello to all the mommies..well i just wanted to post that my appointment went well besides all the scary things that have happend...for one my blood work did not double...along witht them seeing blood in my uterus...all signs of miscariage..but also signs of the pregnancy being fine..w
- 34 wk appt. - Im a liar!
- So I usually go in the afternoons on Mondays but they cancelled my appt Monday b/c of the hurricane and so I went in this morning and the scale said I gained 10 lbs from 2 weeks ago. Now we weigh ourselves and I usually subtract a lb or 2 (clothes and stuff!) but OMG my mw would have totally KI
- Help Pregnant Or Not??
- Hi, i have been ttc and this month approx.10 dpo( 2 DAYS AGO SUNDAY)i had dark brown staining first thing in the morning after I wiped. At first I got excited :lol: and thought it was inplantation bleeding but now im not sure and im getting sooo confused!! : The rest of the day I had some dark
- follicles?
- I read on my hospital report that I have multiple follicles in my left ovary. what does that mean? Is my body prep. to ovulate?
- UC in the news
- Dear Friends,Two of the UC articles I was interviewed for recently were published today. Going it aloneBy Viv Groskophttp://society.guardian.co.uk/health/story/0,,2075502,00.html Overall I was pleased with this article, although at the end of the article there is a birth story that ends in a t
Friday, June 28, 2013
Pregnancy & Birth'S Today Newest Questions & Articles Featured
Having Sex During Your Period
Is it Safe To Have Sex During Your Period?
Many men and women worry that having sexual intercourse during a woman's period is unhealthy. Though frowned upon in many cultures and faiths, sexual intercourse during menstruation is entirely normal and completely healthy.
Though some men and women may find the thought of oral sex during menstruation a little bit off-putting, many partners do engage in this act. If you and your partner are considering having oral sex during your period, rest assured, it is entirely safe to do so. However, if you have an STD, the menstrual blood can contain STD bacteria or viruses, and your partner should use appropriate protection. If you or your partner may be infected, oral sex can be made safer by use of a dental dam. However, if either partner has an STD, it is safest not to have oral sex at all.
Though possible, it is highly unlikely that you will get pregnant during your monthly menstrual cycle. During your period, your body works to shed the uterine lining that it has been building up over the last month, in preparation for pregnancy. When you don't become pregnant, small uterine contractions begin, encouraging the unfertilized egg and unused endometrium to be shed from the uterus and through the vagina. This means that there is no egg in the fallopian tubes to become fertilized and no lining to help a developing embryo to implant properly.
Many women find that sexual intercourse actually helps to relieve period pains and menstrual cramps. This is because an orgasm can cause your uterus to contract, enabling it to use up excess prostaglandins in the process. Prostaglandins are hormones produced by your uterine lining. They help to stimulate contractions that move menstrual blood out of the uterus, and are also responsible for those cramps that occur throughout your period.
Wednesday, June 26, 2013
How Babies Learn Their First Words
How Do Children Learn Language?
Tuesday, June 25, 2013
26 Top Tips To Conceive A Baby!
How to Support Your Child’s Social-Emotional Development
- Develop responsive and consistent care-giving routines. Infants and young children benefit greatly when they feel that their needs are being met in a consistent, respectful, and responsive manner. Figuring out what they need is often a complicated process. It's one that requires you to observe and make sense of the signals your child is giving you through his behaviors. Sit and watch your child to learn what makes him excited or engaged and what soothes him. Then, you'll be able to make more educated guesses about how to respond to him in his moments of need. This sensitive attunement to his needs contributes to his feeling understood and valued. This, in turn, promotes self-esteem and trust in his caregivers.
- Provide safety and security while encouraging exploration. As young children begin the important work of exploring their world, they often feel uncertain and, at times, fearful of new situations. By helping your young child feel assured of the support and availability of his caregiver, you are helping to increase his confidence. This makes it easier for him to explore new experiences and environments. That's because he knows he can rely on you when he needs to return to a secure base. Encouraging the young child's drive for exploration and independence while continuing to be a responsive and consistent presence provides the child with a sense of safety and trust – in himself and in others.
- Provide a nurturing and affectionate environment. Providing children with love and affection conveys to them that they are important and special individuals. Holding your children provides a physical "holding environment" in which they feel safe and contained. Comforting, singing, and talking to your children also provide an important emotional holding environment. This is where their feelings are talked about and managed with the help of their trusted caregiver. It promotes a feeling of safety and security within your young child. As children receive love and affection from their parents and caregivers, they are also learning important aspects of how they can express their love and affection to others.
- Encourage and support your child's emerging skills. Young children are continually learning and developing new skills. "Look what I can do!" is a phrase we often hear from our toddlers and preschoolers as they express their newfound excitement and pride in their accomplishments. Nurture children's learning by showing interest in their activities. Provide opportunities for them to do things on their own, helping when needed. As children master new abilities, they feel competent and self-assured.
- Promote expression of feelings in age-appropriate ways. Young children often struggle with how to express their intense emotions. They need help knowing how to appropriately manage their feelings. Using language to identify, label, and respect a young child's feelings helps. It not only allows her to feel respected and understood, but it also can help her to calm down and better manage her emotions. Over time, children are better able to identify and label their own feelings as their language skills develop.
- It can also be helpful to tell and show young children other ways to manage their feelings. For example, it might help them to pound clay when angry or draw a picture and tell a story about how they are feeling. Helping your child to find appropriate ways to express his emotions will promote self-confidence and self-control. This will also help him to better manage conflicts with peers and to have empathy for his friends and others.
- Encourage respect and appreciation for differences. All children are born into families with certain beliefs, values, and expectations. These are often largely influenced by the culture of the family and their larger community. Culture plays a big role in our lives. It influences every aspect of parenting: feeding, sleeping, and toileting routines; discipline; ideas about schooling, development, communication, and disabilities; and how parents and children are expected to relate to one another. When you display an appreciation and respect for your own culture as well as the cultures of others, you are teaching your child acceptance of differences and an appreciation of the qualities in each of us that makes us unique.
- Nurture your own social and emotional wellness. To provide optimal care for our children, we must also attend to our own needs. We need to ensure that we are nurturing and respecting ourselves. Parenting can be incredibly rewarding, yet it can also be continually exhausting and demanding. Did you grow up in a family where, for various reasons, your own needs for safety, security, affection, and respect were not well provided for? If so, it might be challenging to think about how to provide those experiences for your own children, despite your intense desire to do so.
- Finding support through friends, family, or professionals can provide the comfort, encouragement, and reassurance that you need so you can be more available to your children. Seeking out this support also helps to teach your child that he lives within a loving community where individuals take care of one another.
Sunday, June 23, 2013
Germ fighting tips for having a healthy baby
- Hold all calls
- Clean team
- Smooch-free zone
- House arrest
- Open mouth, insert germs
- Wash up!
- The trouble with toys
- Shot in the arm (or leg)
- Make-it-fun tip!
- Germ-O-Meter
- Germ magnet
6 ways to keep your child healthy at daycare
Saturday, June 22, 2013
How young children learn English as another language
Young children are natural language acquirers; they are self-motivated to pick up language without conscious learning, unlike adolescents and adults. They have the ability to imitate pronunciation and work out the rules for themselves. Any idea that learning to talk in English is difficult does not occur to them unless it's suggested by adults, who themselves probably learned English academically at a later age through grammar-based text books.
Read the notes below about young children learning English as another language. You can also download these notes as a booklet. Right-click on the link below to download the booklet to your computer. You may print this booklet.
The advantages of beginning early
- Young children are still using their individual, innate language-learning strategies to acquire their home language and soon find they can also use these strategies to pick up English.
- Young children have more time to fit English into the daily programme. School programmes tend to be informal and children's minds are not yet cluttered with facts to be stored and tested. They may have little or no homework and are less stressed by having to achieve set standards.
- Young children have time to learn through play-like activities. They pick up language by taking part in an activity shared with an adult. They firstly make sense of the activity and then get meaning from the adult's shared language.
- Children who have the opportunity to pick up a second language while they are still young appear to use the same innate language-learning strategies throughout life when learning other languages. Picking up third, fourth, or even more languages is easier than picking up a second.
- Young children who acquire language rather than consciously learn it, as older children and adults have to, are more likely to have better pronunciation and feel for the language and culture. When monolingual children reach puberty and become more self-conscious, their ability to pick up language diminishes and they feel they have to consciously study English through grammar-based programmes. The age at which this change occurs depends greatly on the individual child's developmental levels as well as the expectations of their society.
Stages in picking up English
Spoken language comes naturally before reading and writing.
Silent period
When babies learn their home language, there is a 'silent period', when they look and listen and communicate through facial expression or gestures before they begin to speak. When young children learn English, there may be a similar 'silent period' when communication and understanding may take place before they actually speak any English words.
During this time parents should not force children to take part in spoken dialogue by making them repeat words. Spoken dialogues should be one-sided, the adult's talk providing useful opportunities for the child to pick up language. Where the adult uses parentese (an adjusted form of speech) to facilitate learning, the child may use many of the same strategies they used in learning their home language.
Building up English language
Gradually children build up phrases consisting of a single memorised word to which they add words from their vocabulary ('a dog', 'a brown dog', 'a brown and black dog') or a single memorised language to which they add their own input ('That's my chair', 'Time to play'). Depending on the frequency of exposure to English and the quality of experience, children gradually begin to create whole sentences.
Beginning to talk
After some time, depending on the frequency of English sessions, each child (girls often more quickly than boys) begins to say single words ('cat', 'house') or ready-made short phrases ('What's that?', 'It's my book', 'I can't', 'That's a car', 'Time to go home') in dialogues or as unexpected statements. The child has memorised them, imitating the pronunciation exactly without realising that some may consist of more than one word. This stage continues for some time as they child picks up more language using it as a short cut to dialogue before they are ready to create their own phrases.
Understanding
Understanding is always greater than speaking and young children's ability to comprehend should not be underestimated, as they are used to understanding their home language from a variety of context clues. Though they may not understand everything they hear in their home language, children grasp the gist – that is they understand a few important words and decipher the rest using different clues to interpret the meaning. With encouragement they soon transfer their 'gist' understanding skills to interpret meaning in English.
Frustration
After the initial novelty of English sessions, some young children become frustrated by their inability to express their thoughts in English. Others want to speak quickly in English as they can in their home language. Frustration can often be overcome by providing children with 'performance' pieces like 'I can count to 12 in English' or very simple rhymes, which consist of ready-made phrases.
Mistakes
Children should not be told they have made a mistake because any correction immediately demotivates. Mistakes may be part of the process of working out grammar rules of English or they may be a fault in pronunciation. 'I goed' soon becomes 'went' if the child hears the adult repeat back 'yes, you went'; or if the adult hears 'zee bus' and repeats 'the bus'. As in learning their home language, if children have an opportunity to hear the adult repeat the same piece of language correctly, they will self-correct in their own time.
Gender differences
Boys' brains develop differently from girls' and this affects how boys pick up language and use it. Sometimes mixed classes make little provision for boys, who may be overshadowed by girls' natural ability to use language. If young boys are to reach their potential, they need some different language experiences with girls and their achievements should not be compared with those of girls.
Language-learning environments
Young children find it more difficult to pick up English if they are not provided with the right type of experiences, accompanied by adult support using 'parentese' techniques.
- Young children need to feel secure and know that there is some obvious reason for using English.
- Activities need to be linked to some interesting everyday activities about which they already know, eg sharing an English picture book, saying a rhyme in English, having an 'English' snack.
- Activities are accompanied by adult language giving a running commentary about what is going on and dialogues using adjusted parentese language.
- English sessions are fun and interesting, concentrating on concepts children have already understood in their home language. In this way children are not learning two things, a new concept as well as new language, but merely learning the English to talk about something they already know.
- Activities are backed up by specific objects, where possible, as this helps understanding and increases general interest.
Reading
Children who can already read in their home language generally want to find out how to read in English. They already know how to decode words in their home language to get meaning from text and, if not helped to decode in English, may transfer their home language-decoding techniques and end up reading English with the home language accent.
Before they can decode English, young children need to know the 26 alphabet letter names and sounds. As English has 26 letters but on average 44 sounds (in standard English), introducing the remaining sounds is better left until children have more experience in using language and reading,
Beginning reading in English goes easily if young children already know the language they are trying to read. Many children work out by themselves how to read in English if they have shared picture books with adults or learned rhymes, as they are likely to have memorised the language. Reading what they know by heart is an important step in learning to read as it gives children opportunities to work out how to decode simple words by themselves. Once children have built up a bank of words they can read, they feel confident and are then ready for a more structured approach.
Parental support
Children need to feel that they are making progress. They need continual encouragement as well as praise for good performance, as any success motivates. Parents are in an ideal position to motivate and so help their children learn, even if they have only basic English themselves and are learning alongside their young children.
By sharing, parents can not only bring their child's language and activities into family life, but can also influence their young children's attitudes to language learning and other cultures. It is now generally accepted that most lifelong attitudes are formed by the age of eight or nine.
Sign language to improve speaking ability
Teaching baby sign language in its communication ability will make it easier in the future. Researcher have the result in sign language (non-verbal) done with the baby will ease the baby to communicate verbally when entering talks period.
Details of the research were mentioned, babies who are taught to use sign language can speak fluently at the age of 27-28 months, more rapid around 3 months than infants who did not learn sign language. 24-month-old baby who was taught sign language to compose a longer sentence is meaningful.
The research also mentions, the language skills of children aged 36 months being taught sign language similar to the language ability of children age 47 months aren't taught sign language. This study involved 140 families who had a baby at age 11 months.
Similar research conducted at the University of California back to prove the same result, even revealing anything else, i.e. a baby early on trained sign language has a high IQ test scores than babies. Linda and Susan continue to do his research based on the theory of psychological, neuro brain easy work with active when the picture was handed a (visual).
In theory, researcher classifies as a visual image of sign language. This means that baby will further enable his brain when he saw his parents using sign language.
It is realized or not, actually naturally many parents already do this, but not aware of it, let alone many not know its benefits. But when talking with children often do not deliberately we add some movement that children understand. When this is done consistently and continuously benefits felt in children. Therefore, Yuk Teach Children with sign language.
Communication: How Babies Learn
Let's return to the concept of infant preferences at birth. In research published in Developmental Science, Werker and doctoral candidate Athena Vouloumanos outlined an experiment that gave babies the choice of listening to speech versus nonspeech. Babies were laid in a bassinette and given a pacifier connected to a system that enabled the researchers to measure the baby's sucking pattern. After establishing a baseline, the researchers "rewarded" babies with a speech or nonspeech sound for each high-amplitude sucking motion. The study showed that babies delivered more sucking sounds in order to hear speech.
When it comes to sound sequences, adults often have difficulty hearing the differences among a language's nuances. Consider English speakers stumbling through the consonants and inflections of Russian or Werker's example of Japanese adults distinguishing between "ra" and "la." The ability to distinguish between consonants is simply a matter of tuning in to the sounds that makeup a listener's experience.
In another recent study, Werker partnered with Stephanie Baker of Dartmouth College to test babies' ability to discriminate visual signs. Their work was based on Baker's previous research conducted with Roberta Michnick-Golinkoff of the University of Delaware and other colleagues, which showed that both 4-month-old infants with typical hearing and adults with hearing loss who use sign language draw sharp distinctions between different visual cues. Yet after the first year, infants with typical hearing no longer demonstrate that same distinction or boundary.
Werker's research is also heavily influenced by colleagues in her lab and around the world. Previous work conducted by Sebastian-Galles and Bosch (2005) with babies learning Spanish and Catalan showed that, at 4 months of age, both monolingual and bilingual babies could differentiate between "e" and "ε." By age 8 months, Catalan babies continued to hear the distinction but Spanish babies did not. Once again, the reason is simple: Catalan has nine vowels, whereas Spanish has only five.
A major area of Werker's research is determining how the properties of speech, specifically the categorization of speech sounds, influence word learning. She describes the process as a "really long journey" because, although babies recognize highly familiar words by 6 and 8 months of age, they still have not developed a system for categorizing them, a skill that generally develops around 14 months of age.
Building on her research into minimal pair word learning, Werker's team partnered with Barbara Bernhardt, a speech-language pathologist at the University of British Columbia, to link the babies' performance on the "bi/di" minimal pair task to vocabulary acquisition and phonological development at 2 ½ and 4 years of age.The test involved a follow-up with the babies from the previous switch task study to determine how much longer they looked at the switch trial task.